The following is an except from an article I wrote for the most recent issue of Bamboo magazine. I’d love it if you’d join me over there to read the rest of the article and continue the discuss in the comments there. Thanks!
Touch is a powerful thing, especially a parent’s touch. It is likely you’ve seen the power of a parent’s touch in action. Babies are soothed when folded in loving arms, tears are chased away with a hug, a gentle squeeze of the shoulder that reminds an antsy child to sit still just a while longer, or how a parent’s large hand wrapped around a child’s small one can provide an extra boost of courage. We know that touch matters.
So, let me ask you a question I recently asked myself: when was the last time you slowed down enough to connect with your child, not just through words, but through a loving, intentionally tender touch?
We touch our children often, of course. But how many of those connections are made on auto-pilot? What if we put more intention into our tasks as loving caregivers? How can we add tenderness to the routine tasks of childcare?