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		<title>By: Megan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Megan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 23:16:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Pam - if it makes you feel any better, my kids watch TV!  It&#039;s limited and they don&#039;t watch stations with commercials, but they do watch PBS Kids and even some Nick Jr!  I would love to move towards more TV-Free living, but we are definitely taking a baby step approach to that lifestyle.  :D
.-= Megan&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SimpleKids/~3/CdzPGNkgwW8/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;October 23rd: Weekend Links&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pam &#8211; if it makes you feel any better, my kids watch TV!  It&#8217;s limited and they don&#8217;t watch stations with commercials, but they do watch PBS Kids and even some Nick Jr!  I would love to move towards more TV-Free living, but we are definitely taking a baby step approach to that lifestyle.  <img src='http://simplekids.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
.-= Megan&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SimpleKids/~3/CdzPGNkgwW8/" rel="nofollow">October 23rd: Weekend Links</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: pam shensky</title>
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		<dc:creator>pam shensky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 01:05:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have read most all of these comments about unique families and it seems many of them have something in common, no TV.  I have older children, but I wish I would have not introduced TV to them:( . Anyway, good for you.I hope you can continue as the years become more challenging. p.s.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have read most all of these comments about unique families and it seems many of them have something in common, no TV.  I have older children, but I wish I would have not introduced TV to them:( . Anyway, good for you.I hope you can continue as the years become more challenging. p.s.</p>
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		<title>By: Danielle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Danielle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 21:22:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Like so many others we have made a lot of parenting and family life choices that leave us feeling a bit, well, different at times. Feels A&#039;s though we are swimming against the current.

We cosleep
Nurse on demand
Don&#039;t own a car
Have our son do most of his napping while being worn
No TV
No jarredbaby food

Generally, we&#039;re just not trying to take ourselves too seriously. I don&#039;t chart dirty diapers or feedings. We eat when we&#039;re hungry, sleep when we&#039;re tired, dance when we feel like it, walk when we can. So far, it&#039;s working out.
.-= Danielle&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://borninjapan.net/?p=572&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Wordless Wednesday&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like so many others we have made a lot of parenting and family life choices that leave us feeling a bit, well, different at times. Feels A&#8217;s though we are swimming against the current.</p>
<p>We cosleep<br />
Nurse on demand<br />
Don&#8217;t own a car<br />
Have our son do most of his napping while being worn<br />
No TV<br />
No jarredbaby food</p>
<p>Generally, we&#8217;re just not trying to take ourselves too seriously. I don&#8217;t chart dirty diapers or feedings. We eat when we&#8217;re hungry, sleep when we&#8217;re tired, dance when we feel like it, walk when we can. So far, it&#8217;s working out.<br />
.-= Danielle&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://borninjapan.net/?p=572" rel="nofollow">Wordless Wednesday</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Niko</title>
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		<dc:creator>Niko</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 03:44:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I loved reading all of these... It really hit home when someone said that they talk to their little one (16 months I think?) and don&#039;t talk to her only to yell.
I have been talking to my daughter since she was in the womb, and I ALWAYS treat her like I would treat my husband/friend/stranger.  We recognize that she is a person too. 

we wanted to have a baby, and intend on letting her be a little one until she is ready to move on-we believe in the child-led approach to many things (weaning, starting solids, potty learning, sleeping in your own bed.)  They won&#039;t go off to college doing these things, and youll miss them when it stops!

We also co-sleep, 
no TV, 
whole foods as much as possible, 
we didn&#039;t do jared baby food, 
we read A LOT, 
go to the library, 
go to the park, 
we don&#039;t fall apart when she falls, 
we get MESSY- a lot!, 
we color daily,
we jump in rain puddles barefoot, 
we are barefoot a lot!,
we dig in the dirt- and sometimes throw it in our hair,
we- (okay my DD) runs naked on the beach sometimes... coppertone baby is the cutest!
we love music!  In the car, DD will listen to music and books on tape like other kids will watch the portable DVDs.
We love winnie the pooh, and elmo but she doesn&#039;t know that they&#039;re animated!
Charlotte&#039;s web is real- and we say hi to her almost daily right outside of our house!
I still &quot;wear&quot; my baby whenever she wants to be held.
I still breastfeed her anywhere and everywhere  (15 months strong- and probably until college! just kidding ;)
My daughter and I are partners in crime!  DH works long hours, so DD and I are together 24-7.  The 1st time I left her for more than a couple of hours was this Tuesday!  And I didn&#039;t let having a baby stop me from going places.  She has learned through experiencing life with us!  I&#039;m sure there&#039;s many more...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I loved reading all of these&#8230; It really hit home when someone said that they talk to their little one (16 months I think?) and don&#8217;t talk to her only to yell.<br />
I have been talking to my daughter since she was in the womb, and I ALWAYS treat her like I would treat my husband/friend/stranger.  We recognize that she is a person too. </p>
<p>we wanted to have a baby, and intend on letting her be a little one until she is ready to move on-we believe in the child-led approach to many things (weaning, starting solids, potty learning, sleeping in your own bed.)  They won&#8217;t go off to college doing these things, and youll miss them when it stops!</p>
<p>We also co-sleep,<br />
no TV,<br />
whole foods as much as possible,<br />
we didn&#8217;t do jared baby food,<br />
we read A LOT,<br />
go to the library,<br />
go to the park,<br />
we don&#8217;t fall apart when she falls,<br />
we get MESSY- a lot!,<br />
we color daily,<br />
we jump in rain puddles barefoot,<br />
we are barefoot a lot!,<br />
we dig in the dirt- and sometimes throw it in our hair,<br />
we- (okay my DD) runs naked on the beach sometimes&#8230; coppertone baby is the cutest!<br />
we love music!  In the car, DD will listen to music and books on tape like other kids will watch the portable DVDs.<br />
We love winnie the pooh, and elmo but she doesn&#8217;t know that they&#8217;re animated!<br />
Charlotte&#8217;s web is real- and we say hi to her almost daily right outside of our house!<br />
I still &#8220;wear&#8221; my baby whenever she wants to be held.<br />
I still breastfeed her anywhere and everywhere  (15 months strong- and probably until college! just kidding <img src='http://simplekids.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
My daughter and I are partners in crime!  DH works long hours, so DD and I are together 24-7.  The 1st time I left her for more than a couple of hours was this Tuesday!  And I didn&#8217;t let having a baby stop me from going places.  She has learned through experiencing life with us!  I&#8217;m sure there&#8217;s many more&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: kat</title>
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		<dc:creator>kat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 01:12:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here in our part of the globe, we belong to a select few who do not have cable in the house. My son (2 yr. old) watches educational videos &amp; absolutely loves his books. He knows how to say thank you &amp; please. My husband and I love to shower our sons with hugs &amp; kisses. 

We all share 1 room. We co-sleep with the baby &amp; our oldest sleeps on a mattress on the floor, but climbs up our bed to sleep most of the time.:) 

I sing &amp; dance to my kids &amp; talk to them as often as I can &amp; explain how everyday things go.

Most of their toys are gifts as I am inclined to buy them books for their enjoyment rather than plastic or battery operated toys.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here in our part of the globe, we belong to a select few who do not have cable in the house. My son (2 yr. old) watches educational videos &amp; absolutely loves his books. He knows how to say thank you &amp; please. My husband and I love to shower our sons with hugs &amp; kisses. </p>
<p>We all share 1 room. We co-sleep with the baby &amp; our oldest sleeps on a mattress on the floor, but climbs up our bed to sleep most of the time.:) </p>
<p>I sing &amp; dance to my kids &amp; talk to them as often as I can &amp; explain how everyday things go.</p>
<p>Most of their toys are gifts as I am inclined to buy them books for their enjoyment rather than plastic or battery operated toys.</p>
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		<title>By: Laura</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 00:45:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Loved reading all of these! We have  a 16-month-old daughter and so many of the things mentioned here ring true for us: the plethora of books all over the house, the absence of television (though our little one does love watching Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers on YouTube), singing and dancing, laughing and creating, family meals, etc.

I suppose one of the things that makes us &quot;stand apart&quot; from so many other families is that we talk to our daughter: we take the time to explain things to her, to ask her questions, to converse with her. It always astonishes me to see how many parents only speak to their children when they are scolding them.

The other thing that my husband and I really focus on with our daughter is trying to teach her kindness, empathy, and thoughtfulness. She knows to say &quot;please&quot; and &quot;thank you.&quot; More importantly, we model these behaviours in how we treat each other. We cannot just tell her what to do -- we have to show her how to be.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Loved reading all of these! We have  a 16-month-old daughter and so many of the things mentioned here ring true for us: the plethora of books all over the house, the absence of television (though our little one does love watching Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers on YouTube), singing and dancing, laughing and creating, family meals, etc.</p>
<p>I suppose one of the things that makes us &#8220;stand apart&#8221; from so many other families is that we talk to our daughter: we take the time to explain things to her, to ask her questions, to converse with her. It always astonishes me to see how many parents only speak to their children when they are scolding them.</p>
<p>The other thing that my husband and I really focus on with our daughter is trying to teach her kindness, empathy, and thoughtfulness. She knows to say &#8220;please&#8221; and &#8220;thank you.&#8221; More importantly, we model these behaviours in how we treat each other. We cannot just tell her what to do &#8212; we have to show her how to be.</p>
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		<title>By: Susan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 21:39:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m really enjoying reading these...and relating to many of them and getting some lovely ideas too.  After visiting family back east for a week, I realized that a big difference is the pace of our life as a family.  Overall, we 3 like to go slowly.  We have very few scheduled activities for our 2.5 year old kiddo and consciously make opportunities for her to be a part of planning our days, adventures and explorations. I think keeping unscheduled time might get more challenging as she grows but we&#039;ll have this time as a foundation. Our home is full of books, books and more books and we visit the library at least once, but often twice a week. She &amp; I travel mostly by public transit and make adventures out of it.  We try to spend a big chunk of every day outside and getting messy is considered beautiful.  We make stuff everyday. And we are always making up songs...lots and lots of songs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m really enjoying reading these&#8230;and relating to many of them and getting some lovely ideas too.  After visiting family back east for a week, I realized that a big difference is the pace of our life as a family.  Overall, we 3 like to go slowly.  We have very few scheduled activities for our 2.5 year old kiddo and consciously make opportunities for her to be a part of planning our days, adventures and explorations. I think keeping unscheduled time might get more challenging as she grows but we&#8217;ll have this time as a foundation. Our home is full of books, books and more books and we visit the library at least once, but often twice a week. She &amp; I travel mostly by public transit and make adventures out of it.  We try to spend a big chunk of every day outside and getting messy is considered beautiful.  We make stuff everyday. And we are always making up songs&#8230;lots and lots of songs.</p>
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		<title>By: Megan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Megan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 19:02:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your home and your philosophy sounds nearly IDENTICAL to us!  And a big ditto from me on the granite coutertops and hybrid SUV, etc.  (Not that there is anything wrong with those choices - it&#039;s just not for us!  I drive a 13 year old Avalon with over 200,000 miles on it!)

I love your dessert idea.  Thank you for sharing that!
.-= Megan&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SimpleKids/~3/gzIYOytEXJ4/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Simple As That: Celebrating Our Unique Families&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your home and your philosophy sounds nearly IDENTICAL to us!  And a big ditto from me on the granite coutertops and hybrid SUV, etc.  (Not that there is anything wrong with those choices &#8211; it&#8217;s just not for us!  I drive a 13 year old Avalon with over 200,000 miles on it!)</p>
<p>I love your dessert idea.  Thank you for sharing that!<br />
.-= Megan&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SimpleKids/~3/gzIYOytEXJ4/" rel="nofollow">Simple As That: Celebrating Our Unique Families</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Megan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Megan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 18:57:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Vicky, it really is surprising how comfortable people with asking questions about family size and family plans.  Now that our younger daughter has hit two, we are starting to field lots of &quot;So, are you going to try for a boy?&quot; questions.  I&#039;m still working on a gracious yet evasive response to that.  I can only imagine the questions you must get on your family of three.

On the mommy-slant on parenting blogs - in the three years I have been blogging in this niche, I&#039;ve noticed that the dads who frequent blogs (let alone write them) are far outnumbered.  The ones who do blog about the fatherhood aspect are really tremendous writers, and I wish there more of them!  I think the motherhood angle comes more from the prolific interest of women in this niche - not necessarily because more dads aren&#039;t hands-on dads.  I think the hands-on dad is becoming more and more the norm (at least in my part of the country).  Maybe they just aren&#039;t ready to talk about it publicly yet.  I don&#039;t know.  You make a great point though!  Good insights on the balance and shared responsibility.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Vicky, it really is surprising how comfortable people with asking questions about family size and family plans.  Now that our younger daughter has hit two, we are starting to field lots of &#8220;So, are you going to try for a boy?&#8221; questions.  I&#8217;m still working on a gracious yet evasive response to that.  I can only imagine the questions you must get on your family of three.</p>
<p>On the mommy-slant on parenting blogs &#8211; in the three years I have been blogging in this niche, I&#8217;ve noticed that the dads who frequent blogs (let alone write them) are far outnumbered.  The ones who do blog about the fatherhood aspect are really tremendous writers, and I wish there more of them!  I think the motherhood angle comes more from the prolific interest of women in this niche &#8211; not necessarily because more dads aren&#8217;t hands-on dads.  I think the hands-on dad is becoming more and more the norm (at least in my part of the country).  Maybe they just aren&#8217;t ready to talk about it publicly yet.  I don&#8217;t know.  You make a great point though!  Good insights on the balance and shared responsibility.</p>
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		<title>By: Nikki</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nikki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 18:56:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What makes us different from families around us?  We don&#039;t have granite counter tops or bamboo flooring or stainless steel appliances or a hybrid SUV.  LOL  :)
We let our kids run and play at the park and don&#039;t feel the need to spot them if they climb more than 6 inches off the ground  :)  We don&#039;t run full tilt when one takes a tumble - we assess the situation and comfort when it seems needed/appropriate.  We make our Halloween costumes (DS5 will be, of all things, a street cleaner this year!).  We &quot;eat dessert&quot; by saying something sweet about each family member.  We provide a mix of foods and let our kids help plan snacks and meals.  If our DS3 is sneaking something from the fridge, I&#039;d bet good money that it&#039;s grapes or cheese haha!  We don&#039;t mind that there are no &quot;adult&quot; rooms in our home - there are toys and books everywhere!  We don&#039;t pay our kids to do chores, these are things that need to be done to keep our home in order  :)
.-= Nikki&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://4deans.blogspot.com/2009/09/school-days.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;School Days&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What makes us different from families around us?  We don&#8217;t have granite counter tops or bamboo flooring or stainless steel appliances or a hybrid SUV.  LOL  <img src='http://simplekids.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
We let our kids run and play at the park and don&#8217;t feel the need to spot them if they climb more than 6 inches off the ground  <img src='http://simplekids.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   We don&#8217;t run full tilt when one takes a tumble &#8211; we assess the situation and comfort when it seems needed/appropriate.  We make our Halloween costumes (DS5 will be, of all things, a street cleaner this year!).  We &#8220;eat dessert&#8221; by saying something sweet about each family member.  We provide a mix of foods and let our kids help plan snacks and meals.  If our DS3 is sneaking something from the fridge, I&#8217;d bet good money that it&#8217;s grapes or cheese haha!  We don&#8217;t mind that there are no &#8220;adult&#8221; rooms in our home &#8211; there are toys and books everywhere!  We don&#8217;t pay our kids to do chores, these are things that need to be done to keep our home in order  <img src='http://simplekids.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
.-= Nikki&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://4deans.blogspot.com/2009/09/school-days.html" rel="nofollow">School Days</a> =-.</p>
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